Learning to Hear Myself: Living with Hearing Loss and Finding My Voice
I edited myself out of my own life, little by little, afraid that visibility meant vulnerability.
I edited myself out of my own life, little by little, afraid that visibility meant vulnerability.
It’s never too early to start living like you’re dying... I came very close to losing everything. Anything after that point felt like a win.
I reached a point where I decided I wouldn’t let anyone else set the bar or define my worth... By healing and affirming myself, I was able to extend that healing outward.
In the UK, only 7% of commercial directors are women, and only 12.6% of creative directors are women…I believe the lack of women in creative leadership roles is why there are so many outdated, lazy stereotypes of women served up to us on our screens.
I had to give myself permission first. No one was going to hand that to me.
A lot of people were not ready for one of the most public asexual people to be a Black woman.
Accepting my diagnosis and choosing to be visible—living without the fear of judgment and using my story to change the narrative surrounding HIV—is a milestone I am proud of.
Shortly after losing all of my vision, I was forced to navigate my new life as a blind trans woman with very little support, at least to begin with.
The one thing I have learned from all of this is that access is the game-changer... We will change it, investor or not.